{"id":15356,"date":"2025-03-17T14:43:59","date_gmt":"2025-03-17T03:43:59","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/rationalemagazine.com\/?p=15356"},"modified":"2025-03-22T12:40:14","modified_gmt":"2025-03-22T01:40:14","slug":"the-decisions-we-make","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/rationalemagazine.com\/index.php\/2025\/03\/17\/the-decisions-we-make\/","title":{"rendered":"The decisions we make"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The new year is well and truly over, and most Australians are back to their normal lives. Which is another way of saying that <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.finder.com.au\/insights\/new-years-resolutions-statistics\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">the vast majority of people have given up<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> on their New Year resolutions. It is a pity that many people give up their resolutions so easily, as they can provide a fork in the road leading to better outcomes.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Why is it that we don\u2019t choose to do what we know is good for us? I think we all know the answer to that \u2013 it is all too difficult! It is easy to succumb to short-term gratification and give in to our basic human nature.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you don\u2019t believe in a non-corporeal world beyond this one, if you don\u2019t believe in gods, spirits, or other supernatural beings or phenomena, then it follows that you must believe that human nature is determined by our physical attributes. What we feel, what we think and what we do are driven by what we are.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">And what are we? We are the product of hundreds of thousands of years of evolution \u2013 from small groups of hunter gatherers to, in the last ten millennia, settlers in cities, towns and villages, surviving on subsistence farming. These experiences have shaped our genome. It has resulted in our remarkable success as a species. And it is this success that will cause our civilisations to collapse in the near future.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<blockquote><p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cHope? Hope is funny. Hope is not a plan. Actually, it\u2019s just a trick. A ruse.\u201d <\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">(<\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">James<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, by Percival Everett, 2024).<\/span><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">There is no agency in our genetic evolution other than to survive and reproduce. Evolution is a process, not a destination. The species survives or it doesn\u2019t. We may be the most sophisticated level of lifeform on Earth, but if we destroy the biosphere we will become extinct as so many lifeforms have done before us.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The decisions we make, both conscious and unconscious, determine our behaviour. At the basic level, they are driven by our survival instincts, not on an individual level but on a species level. It is extremely hard to escape our genetic programming.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Greed, ruthlessness, persistence, dominance and cooperation help humans find the basic\u00a0 essentials for life, like water, food, shelter, a safe place to sleep. Lust, possessiveness, infidelity, dominance and even violence help humans to find a mate, have sex and pass on their genes.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Strong pair bonds and caring relationships with family members help humans look after the vulnerable throughout a <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.theguardian.com\/commentisfree\/2022\/jul\/10\/long-childhood-humans-earths-most-complex-animal\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">childhood which is exceptionally long<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.relationships.org.au\/wp-content\/uploads\/Relationship-Indicators-2024-Report-Final.pdf\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Enduring love<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> is essential for the continuity of the species.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">We may think we are autonomous, powerful individuals doing our own \u201cthing\u201d, but we are social animals. No matter how self-reliant we are, if we are isolated from other people for any length of time, most people start longing for human contact and <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/theconversation.com\/what-are-the-effects-of-total-isolation-an-expert-explains-109091\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">suffer physical and mental disorders<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> from isolation. We are puny creatures and have a powerful need to belong.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">For over 90 per cent of the time <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Homo sapiens<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> have been around, we have been <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Hunter-gatherer\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">hunters and gatherers<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> living in small groups. We can probably thank this heritage for <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/theconversation.com\/why-our-ancestors-were-more-gender-equal-than-us-41902\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">our willingness to help<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> others including strangers, and work cooperatively and value equitable relationships.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When humans settled down in large groups, and could own things, it changed the power dynamic in relationships. If you have something, someone is likely to want to take it from you to increase their chance of survival. Wars are one way of doing this. Thus, humans became the greatest threat to other humans.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Aggression, dominance, seeking status and privilege increases the chances of survival. For a group, a strong leader makes members feel more secure. People with lower status will accept hierarchies and rules because they provide a sense of order and <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.psychologytoday.com\/au\/blog\/social-justice-pacifists\/202502\/the-indian-caste-system-a-self-perpetuating-social-order\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">these people know their place<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Most humans are capable of behaving cruelly, discriminating against, and showing indifference to those viewed as weaker or as a threat, within and outside the group. It also leads to <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.dwfoxtucker.com.au\/2024\/03\/in-pursuit-of-justice-the-womens-rights-journey\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">most humans becoming possessions<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<blockquote><p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cI hated the world that wouldn\u2019t let me apply justice without the certain retaliation of injustice <\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">(<\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">James<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, by Percival Everett, 2024).<\/span><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Self-actualisation, striving to be the greatest of all time, or at least the best a person can be, helps humans feel less insignificant. Whilst having such a purpose in life can lead to excellence and prestige, it can over emphasise competition and individual achievement. <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/articles\/PMC9729783\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Egotism<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> at the moment seems to be getting in the way of our survival.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Harnessing the curiosity of humans has led to exploration, creative endeavours and life-improving inventions. Using our tremendous brain power has exponentially increased knowledge and problem-solving capabilities. It has also produced our ability to <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Rationalization_(psychology)\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">rationalise<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> just about anything.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Deep thinking about issues can help humans gain insights that help them <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/thesideview.co\/journal\/on-stoic-transcendence\/#:~:text=By%20rising%20above%20our%20own,level%20of%20wisdom%20and%20virtue.\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">transcend<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> the limitations of innate behaviour and deep-seated prejudices. It enables humans to explore other ways of living, to enjoy beauty and peace and simple things in life.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If we think rationally we can see we are part of an enormous web of interdependent living things on a fragile and unusual planet. In reality, there is no good and bad \u2013 people are just living things with a range of characteristics leading them to do what they can to survive and thrive.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">What is more important than assigning blame is to focus on the outcomes we want for the future and how we can modify our behaviour to achieve them for the sake of our species and all other living things.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Overall, there are a limited number of motivators for human behaviour. Humans make decisions to help them stay alive, have sex and a family, be as secure as possible, find love, belong to a group, achieve, use their brain power, and, for some, enjoy the moment and transcend the limits of human nature to see the wider picture.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">These simple drivers of our behaviour interact in complex ways rather like a beautiful <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/alonso-delarte.medium.com\/a-quick-explanation-of-the-mandelbrot-set-41102d7182b\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Mandelbrot set<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> which repeats its pattern at many levels, although not quite in the same way.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/rationalist.com.au\/make-a-donation\/\"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-15149\" src=\"https:\/\/rationalemagazine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/Support-in-2025.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"1600\" height=\"400\" srcset=\"https:\/\/rationalemagazine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/Support-in-2025.png 1600w, https:\/\/rationalemagazine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/Support-in-2025-300x75.png 300w, https:\/\/rationalemagazine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/Support-in-2025-1024x256.png 1024w, https:\/\/rationalemagazine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/Support-in-2025-768x192.png 768w, https:\/\/rationalemagazine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/Support-in-2025-1536x384.png 1536w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Throughout history, certain trends have repeated over and over again in different settings and levels but with the same general outcomes. On the whole, short periods of change result in greater openness, intellectual development, tolerance and freedom. Those in control are threatened. As a result, there is a retreat into long periods of repression, restriction, forced cooperation and inhumane treatment.<\/span><\/p>\n<blockquote><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201c<\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">After being cruel, the most notable white attribute was gullibility\u201d <\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">(<\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">James<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, by Percival Everett, 2024).<\/span><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It is hard to predict what humans are going to do in a particular circumstance. Our individual choices at a particular time and place are like the proverbial butterfly which flaps its wings and tips the balance so that a cyclone develops elsewhere.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The individual factors are just too many and too complex to be able to predict accurately, and we must succumb to the ramifications of chaos theory. The decisions we make often rest on a knife edge, because life is complex and messy.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">We are driven by conflicting desires and affected by external factors such as our upbringing, culture, education and by chance. We may impulsively act on our most basic instincts and be swayed by our prejudices and fears. We may rationalise our choices or, if we are conscientious, base them on the best available evidence. Our individual choices are important and <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.watchmojo.com\/articles\/top-20-smartest-decisions-in-history\/edward-jenner-inoculates-james-phipps\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">can change the world<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. Each is a fork in the road.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Do we choose the road less travelled?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Published 17 March 2025.\u00a0<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><b><i>If you wish to republish this original article, please attribute to\u00a0<\/i><\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/rationalemagazine.com\/\"><b>Rationale<\/b><\/a><b><i>.\u00a0<\/i><\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/rationalemagazine.com\/index.php\/publishing-guidelines\/\"><b><i>Click here<\/i><\/b><\/a><b><i>\u00a0to find out more about republishing under Creative Commons.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Photo by <a href=\"https:\/\/unsplash.com\/photos\/man-standing-in-the-middle-of-woods-KTpSVEcU0XU\">Vladislav Babienko<\/a> on Unsplash.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/rationalemagazine.com\/index.php\/author\/rational51\/\"><em><strong>More articles by Elizabeth Dangerfield.<\/strong><\/em><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The new year is well and truly over, and most Australians are back to their normal lives. 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